A Connected Yet Disconnected Generation
Digital natives are people who grew up with modern technology. They never experienced life without the internet. They’ve always had access to phones that functioned more like computers. And yet, digital natives are prone to a condition called “crowded loneliness.” In a strange way, we can be surrounded by people and still feel alone. We might be the most connected yet disconnected generation to ever live.
As we struggle to find genuine community, the first-century church provides a picture of what’s possible. The first followers of Jesus gathered for worship, but they also helped with each other’s needs. They were united in their mutual love for Jesus and the people around them. They were committed to a common mission of sharing the gospel everywhere they went. Their life together was unlike anything their culture had seen before, and it attracted attention from all over the ancient world.
A Picture of Real Love and Care
The Apostle Paul spoke about this in his letter to the Christians in Rome. “Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other” Romans 12.9-10 NLT. A caring church is one that says, “We care about you.” Christian love isn’t shallow or fake; it’s deep and real. While the world tries its hardest to pull people down, the church should be committed to building people up and bringing out their best.
Paul continues: “When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality” Romans 12.13 NLT. A caring church is one that says, “We care about your needs.” A person’s spiritual life is important, but so is every part of their life. If someone is sick, the church should do what it can to help. If someone needs a place to stay, the church should provide one. If someone needs a meal, the church should offer one. A faithful community is one that stands ready to help people with their practical needs.
Sharing Life’s Highs and Lows Together
Finally, Paul says, “Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep” Romans 12.15 NLT. A caring church is one that says, “We care about your highs and lows.” This is a move of empathy, which is the deepest expression of care that can be offered. Empathy emphasizes our common bond with someone else. The connection is so strong that we genuinely feel someone else’s emotions as if they were our own. Who wouldn’t want to be part of a community like that?
This blog originally appeared at: Rediscovering True Community in a Disconnected World – discipleFIRST and features an excerpt from one of their Student Series books, Walk With God.